Getting a guy to call you after that wonderful first meeting isn´t too difficult with these four tips.
Did you ever experience meeting a guy for the first time and having a feeling that you want to get to know him more? You want him to call you after you said “bye”. You want him to ask you for a date, if not casually seeing you the next time. You gave him your number and you waited, ohh waited badly for that call.
Or you probably couldn´t wait anymore and you called him. Wait, you called him? Did you know that it´s a serious violation of our game, playing hard to get?
I know exactly how it feels, been there, done that. I´ve almost always played it wrong. I had no idea that getting a guy to call me after that fabulous first meeting is actually—with at least some practice—easy.
Here are four steps I learned from the book, Make Him Desire You And Beg For More.
1. Set up a great vibe during the interaction.
Men are attracted to women with an upbeat spirit and positive vibe. While you´re talking to him, smile. Indulge in an interesting, fun conversation.
Don´t be shy to show him the fun side of you. The more he enjoys talking to you, the more likely he would like to meet you for a good conversation and some good laugh next time.
2. Enjoy the conversation.
It´s difficult to build a positive vibe if you don´t truly enjoy the conversation. Faking it doesn´t work. I saw this clip of a woman who laughs a lot every after each word that she utters while conversing with a guy. It was an unbecoming sight.
Ask questions. Get him to talk about his hobbies and his interests. Share with him the things that you are passionate about. Are there things that you two can do together? Maybe you two can enjoy walking your dogs together. How about visiting a park? Do you both love going to the beach?
Make him commit and surrender his heart to you, learn how to be “the woman men adore and never want to leave”.
3. Know when to exit the conversation.
While things are going great, he wants to know more about you and you about him, it´s the perfect time to exit the conversation. I know, you don´t want to leave just yet, you still enjoy that subtle flirting and the excitement of just being with him, right?
Well, remember that you are playing a tactic here. The plan is to bring him to the highest point of the conversation and then you get going, you leave. This will trigger more interest on the guy, he would feel the desire to see you again and have another fun meeting.
Did you know that there´s a formula to make a man feel that special desire for you? Make Him Desire You.
Imagine if you don´t exit during this highest point of the conversation. You talk and talk until you run out of interesting things to talk about. You can´t start to tackle very personal things, you´ve just met! There´ll be some awkward silence, smiles, and then he says, “Oh, now I gotta get going.” Do you think he´s likely to contact you again?
4. Give him your phone number.
Leave while things are still going great. But before you do exit, make sure to give him your number. It´s no brainer, he needs your phone number if he´s going to call you. You can casually say, “I´d love to talk to you longer but I really gotta go now. Perhaps we can meet up again? Here´s my number. Call me, okay?”
Your positive vibe, witty remarks, and a great conversation that were all taken away from him while he still enjoys them will most likely make this guy pick up the phone and call you.