In a relationship, it must be give-and-take. Your partner is not the only one responsible for spicing up your sex life. You might already know how to make your man feel good in bed, but do you know that there’s a lot more you can do to give the satisfaction he’s been dying to have? Fortunately, you already have what you need to make this happen, your mouth.
Yes! You read it right. According to Shelley Hess, the mouth can deliver an incredible range of sensations. There are a lot more you can do in bed that will surprise him. To help you, here’s the list of things you must do to blow his mind.
Give Him an Unforgettable Blowjob Experience
If you want your man toe-curling, screaming your name to his orgasms, and keep him sexually addicted to you. A blowjob is a top on the list. Not all women are willing to go down to their men. That’s why men choose to ignore it. But deep inside, they’ve been dying to feel this satisfaction. Don’t worry. There’s no need for you to lower your pride just to make your man happy.
There are ways you can do to satisfy him without actually doing the blowjob on your own. You can even involve some sex toys in your bedroom, get him the best pocket pussy and blowjob machines. It is satisfying for a man to see your naughty face while you operate these toys. The bonus is watching your man reach his climax is also satisfying for you. It’s like hitting two birds in one stone.
Don’t Forget His Ears.
Sandor Gardens, a Ph.D. sexologist, mentioned in one of his articles that ears could pick up subtle sensations. This means that you should not only worry about blowing your man’s penis. You also need to pay attention to his ears. Put your lips apart from his ear for an inch and emit a deep sigh.
Take his earlobe between your lashes, then pull it softly. This would attract the nerve endings within the ear and indirectly trigger them. Those nerves are rarely stimulated, but when you do this, you can blow his mind. Yes, ears can be a sensual zone.
Do a Little Teasing
Graze your lips softly over his forehead, keeping them as dry as possible, looping slowly toward his temple and then down to his mouth. As Hess calls it, this dry brushing will have a different feel than the usual wet kiss. That’s how the mask is hidden by an almost translucent fuzz called the fur of vellum.
These hairs can be triggered by a slight, delicate touch, causing sublime shivers. Unlike any other kisses, the sweetness of this kiss is different. Because it means a strong emotional tie for both of you, and he knows and feels that way.
Kiss His Neck
Few kisses create a connection like those on the neck with I-want-you-now. Gently pull his head back and to the side to take the passion level up a notch, which will expose an extra-sensitive tendon running from the ear to the shoulder.
Work your way down the ridge from the base of his ear, alternating spontaneously between small nibbles and soft kisses, so he won’t know what’s coming next.
Put Some Extra Sweetness on Your Lips
Your kisses feel sweet already, but making them literally sweet can make him kiss you all day. You can make them even sweeter by putting a small drop of honey in your lips or his favorite flavor before giving him your juicy French kiss. Tease him by pulling away, and you will see how he will hunger for more.
Target His Sensitive Spot
On his most vulnerable areas, including his nipples, a frequently overlooked erogenous zone for males, the underneath of your tongue can feel perfect. The silky texture of your tongue will feel very sexy on those sensitive spots. So flick the lower portion of your tongue over these sweet spots from side to side.
Then take his senses for a loop when he gets into it by going to the rougher, upper side of your tongue, alternating between the back and forth. But you’ll have his senses on high alert as you move from one form of texture to another, which will keep him screaming for more. Most men are embarrassed to admit that they also want you to play with his nipples.
It is because usually, this is something that only women should like. So it is a bonus for you if you know this thing. You can also play more with it by putting ice on nipples, and it will wake up sensitive nerves. However, it will be more intense if you will use ice drops. It will build excitement, and don’t forget to lick it very sexy.
A strip of hair known as the “treasure trail” lies between the navel of your man and his nether area, so-called because of its sensitivity, not to mention the fact that it leads to where he’s dying for you to go. Would you like to show him how prize-worthy this trail is? Take some hair strands between your lips and tug, starting right below his navel, just hard enough that he can feel it, but softly enough not to spring out of his skin.
The pinpricks of mild pain you will produce will send jolts of electricity throughout the lower abdominal area and register below the buckle. Pulling the hair lightly can activate nerves deep under the skin’s area, which skin to skin contact can’t do. The downward direction you are up to will make him imagine wild with hot and heavy possibilities.
Straddle your partner as he lays on his back, and then squeeze your lips against his neck’s nape tightly. Probe the grooves on either side of his vertebrae with your tongue flexed such that it’s pointy, slowly making your way down to his tailbone. It feels like you are giving your man a shiatsu massage using your tongue instead of your fingers.
Don’t be shocked if this one has just the contrary effect if massages normally lull him to sleep. Your massage immediately goes from soothing to racy when you use your lips instead of your palms.
Tie Him Gently
Here’s another piece of advice from a sex therapist and author of The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex, a little bondage can be very thrilling for men. It turns them on when they don’t know what’s going to happen. Demonstrate that you are imaginative as you are sexually assertive. Everything you saw on Fifty Shades of Grey can be applied here. You can use a novel prop, a belt, a bikini top, or a pair of nylons.
Straddle his body in bed and gently bind his wrists above his head. As soon as he’s bound, it is your time to play his body. Use the right materials that are good to touch, like faux fur, lacy bra, or a silk cami. You can also take advantage of this opportunity to be on top of him and drive him to unforgettable sex. This is also beneficial for you because it is the most stimulating to target your clitoris.
Don’t Underestimate His Knees
This part is one of the erogenous zones that is often underestimated. “The knees are full of nerve endings; that’s why people there are often ticklish,” says St. Claire, a sex therapist. She adds that the knees’ backs are especially vulnerable since the nerves are close to the skin. Swivel your tongue over the crease for optimum sensual effect and then blow on the spot. This air puff will evaporate the moisture.
He felt the tickle of a feather on his body and the sensation of silk. Offer him a new tactile treat now: leather. Slip some comfortable leather gloves on and give a rubdown to your man. Run your hands down his abdomen to his genitals first, but don’t go there yet. Give his legs a massage, then work your way back to his body. If you make contact with his manhood, brush both hands gently.
Most women use only one hand, but two get you and him wholly engaged. Plus, contributing to the atmosphere would be a fresh texture.
So there you have it! Those are the things you can do to blow his mind on your next intimate session. Surprise him with these easy ways to spice up your night. Keeping your man guessing about what will happen next is the secret to keep him coming back to you. Let him crave for something that only you can do.
Helen Fisher, Ph.D., an anthropologist, testified that sexual surprises drive up levels of the natural feel-good stimulants dopamine and norepinephrine in a man’s body. You don’t need to do all of these techniques. Just try a few of them until you find which works effectively for your man.