Before you make the first move to get a guy to kiss you, make sure first that he is equally into you. Getting a kiss from him that way will be easy.
If you ask me how to get a guy to kiss you, I may not be the best person to answer that question because after all, the only guy who has ever kissed me on the lips is my husband.
Even if I dated several men before him, including the guy who had a girlfriend, I didn´t have the courage to kiss them or to allow them to kiss me.
The reason was a mixture of fear; fear that after I kiss the guy there may not be enough spark, fear that I may not be able to control myself, and as for the guy with a girlfriend, the thought that the other girl was still kissing him was what stopping me.
Truth be told, I mostly dated those men for a short time anyway.
But things took a big twist when I dated my husband. I was very much physically attracted to him (and still I am) and I felt entirely safe around him. He´s a complete gentleman, I knew deep down that he´s the kind of guy who would never take advantage of me and would respect my standards.
My standard was not so easy though—it´s no sex before marriage.
I remember our first kiss; I picked him up at the airport after he agreed to visit me during our seventh month of online dating. There was too much excitement for both of us, our energy was on spike.
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Did you know that there´s a formula to make a man feel that special desire for you? Make Him Desire You.
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When finally we got into a cab to bring us from the airport to his hotel, I had an intense desire to kiss him.
I was sitting very close beside him at the back seat, his left arm on my shoulders wrapping me into a semi-hug. We were not talking, just feeling each other.
Eventually I couldn´t hold my feelings anymore, I rested my head on the backrest of the seat, lifted my head towards him, and closed my eyes.
He understood my signal and quickly, I felt the light touch of his lips on mine, passionate albeit a little tentative. His tongue was slightly playing on my lips, only teasing.
When I wanted to pull away to catch my breath, I put my hands on his chest. And then I tilted my head again and he kissed me one more time.
I´ll never forget that first kiss we shared in the cab, up to these days my husband still teases me for it, but even if it was the first time I´ve ever been bold in getting a guy to kiss me, I find the experience really cute.
As naïve as I was, I didn´t even care if the cab driver was watching us.
In my opinion, if you want to get a guy to kiss you, you should see to it that you´re already sure of your feelings for him and that you´re also sure of his feelings for you.
For example, just because you went out on first date with him doesn´t mean that you should already kiss him after he takes you home. Nothing kills an initial attraction quicker than an awkward kiss.
In our case, even if it was the first time my boyfriend and I met in person, we´ve already fallen in love with each other after seven months of communication. The chemistry that we had in person only confirmed our feelings.
If you want to get a guy to kiss you, take his hands and put on your waist, place your hands on his chest and look him in the eyes, tilt your head towards him and close your eyes. If he too wants to kiss you, he will surely pick up your signal and will lovingly kiss you.
