Can you really make a man adore you on your own skin without tactics?
How to gain full love authentically? I’ve been quite successful with playing games for some time but aside from being tiring; it doesn’t coincide with my values these days. I’d like to hear from your perspective ways to genuinely have men adore you in your own skin and in your own ways, without ‘tactics’. ~ Jordan
I`m really curious what games were you successful in playing for dating? I can´t put my thoughts into such games because I have no idea, you didn´t give examples. But I wished I could tell you that you don´t need tactics in making men adore you. I really wished …
Because men require mental challenge in order to fall in love with you, you need to know how to keep the challenge until … you get a hold of their heart. Men may like you, they may be into you, but not knowing how to keep the mental challenge going will set the stage to them losing interest on you before they fall in love with you.
Do you call that tactic?
For example, why men pull away in early stages of dating when they seemed so interested on and all over you from the beginning? Why did he suddenly stop calling? Why is he suddenly playing cold?
You´re worried. You´re missing him. You want to know what you did wrong to make him act distant. You love him and the idea that he now loses interest on you is overwhelming. What would you do?
Call him how many times a day? Go to his place to see if he´s still alive? Text him. Email him? Jump up and down the moment your phone rings? But you´re just being authentic to your feelings, right?
Or should you play cool, control your emotions and wait for him to come around? Should you do everything in your power not to call him or contact him like what Taylor Swift says in her song, “I Almost Do”?
♩♫It takes everything in me not to call you. And I wish I could run to you. And I hope you know that every time I don’t. I almost do, I almost do.♪♬
Do you call that tactic?
How about playing feminine and letting a man take care of you so he would feel needed when in reality, you don´t need him to take care of you?
See: 51 Traits of Needy Women That Turn Men Off
Why do you have to show all your good sides and hide the bad sides during first date just because the supposed right goal of first date is to get asked for a second date, and then third, and then more dates?
Weren´t you told that men who can´t handle the worst of you can´t handle the best of you? Do you actually believe that?
Truth is, you can show him the real you, your sweat and your worst side only and only if the man has already fallen in love with you. Before then, you have to be on your guard.
Do you call that tactic?
If you need to act certain ways or do certain things in order to deal with men´s mental challenge and make men adore you, can you still be authentic in love? Can you still make men adore you in your own skin and your own ways?
The reality is men love women with personality. They don´t like women who are faking it and playing games, women who say “Yes” all the time and agree to everything they say, women who have no standards.
Men are attracted to women who are comfortable in their own skin, who show self-love and who won´t compromise their worth for a relationship, women who got their own life going and who are happy with or without a man.
But men also adore women who can make them feel needed and admired. Men adore women who let them take care of her, women who are strong and confident but also feminine, and women who are not afraid to show her vulnerable side.
If you want to dig deeper, if you want to make him commit and surrender his heart to you, learn how to be “the woman men adore and never want to leave”.
