
Why is it that men seem to be so into you in order to have sex but disappears afterwards?
Is it normal in dating when sharing intense sex (we both experienced intense O’s and he said he never had been able to have multiple O’s and did with me over and over…lol)…he pulled away and I’m doing my best to lay back. Not sure if he’s lost interest or if he’s freaking out.
He disrespected me one night with us having plans and I didn’t hear from him `till 10 in which I ignored his text. He texted the next day and I simply said “I feel dissapointed/angry when I’m left waiting….not even getting a courtesy text”. He quickly apologized and said I was right. He then made plans with me the next night and before our date he asked me out for the following night too, in which I accepted. It was that night that we experienced intense sex and he talked about the future with us, wanted to help me fix my car, etc….he canceled our date the next night and wanted to see if Tuesday or Wednesday would work but, I had to go out of town.
He has since stopped texting for a few days at a time. And when he does text it’s very short. I also noticed he posted himself on some dating sites since that intense night as well. ~ Miss C.
Many women mistakenly think that great sex will translate into true love, so they´re quick to give him intense throwback in the bedroom and hope that he´ll fall head over heels. Unfortunately, this is rarely the case. He may enjoy you, but that doesn´t mean he´ll fall for you.
That´s the reason why I`m an active advocate for delaying sex after meeting a man.
If you´re quick to give him the treat before you get to know him really well, and before he commits to you, it loses his motivation to pursue you and worse, the chance to fall for you.
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Your guy is clearly only into sex with you and now that he´s posting his profile in some dating sites means he´s either looking for real relationship with another woman or he´s hoping to have more bedroom adventures with other women.
But you´re right in doing your best to lay back, you ought not chase a man who isn´t ready to commit to you.