Are you a keeper or a throwback? Men are looking to marry a keeper while they want to play games with a throwback.
Did you ever find yourself asking what type of women men want to marry? I used to ask too. I was wondering if I had what men are looking for in a woman. I was also wondering where to find quality men and what spells to use to make a man fall in love with me.
But it didn´t take long before I figured that I actually am in the position to identify if I want to be that woman who men want to marry or be that woman who men just want to kick it and play with.
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Men classify women into two types—the keeper and the throwback.
The Keeper is a marrying type of woman. Men are obviously looking for her and if they´re stable and ready, marry her.
But men who aren´t yet willing to commit are fishing for the throwbacks. They´re quick to fall in line and sign up for this type. You know what they want—to quickly bring her to bed.
So how do men identify if a woman is a keeper or a throwback?
The Marrying Type of Women: The Keeper
A keeper is a woman who doesn´t give in so easily. She doesn´t jump to his bed on first date or better yet, she doesn´t give in to sex before marriage. She sets the standards and requirements clearly and early.
Men can identify her the moment she first opens her mouth.
She commands—not demands—respect just by the way she carries herself. She´s sure of herself and she knows what she wants in a man and in a relationship.
Men can approach her, flatter and flirt with her, and even give her their best game. But while she may be impressed by what a man says, it´s not a guarantee that she´s going to allow him to lead the conversation much more let it go any further, or much less give him her phone number. She´s not going to give him her valuable time just to entertain his flattery.
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Men automatically knows the moment she speaks that if they want her, they´re going to get in line with her standards and requirements. She defines the game.
But she´s also capable of sending a hint that she´s interested. She will send all the signals that she´s capable of loving a man and taking good care of him. That she will make for an appreciative and supportive mate, and will give him an everlasting love.
The Sports fish: The Throwback
Steve Harvey in his book, Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man, describes the Throwback type of women as sports fish. Steve loves fishing and says searching for a woman to marry is akin to fishing.
He experiences a sudden rush of adrenaline once his bait works and he feels a fish on the end of his line. He needs to use his mind and might to hook the fish, reel it and get it in the boat.
But once he has the fish in his hands, he decides whether to keep or throw it back to the sea. And yet a fish has to be really special to make it to his stringer. Thus, most of the sports fish are thrown back to the sea.
How do men know if a woman is a throwback? Guess what? They can smell her from a distance.
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She doesn´t have any rules, respect for herself, or guidelines.
“She´s the party girl who takes a sip of her Long Island ice tea or a shot of her Pa´tron and then announces to her suitor that she just wants to date and see how it goes.”
“She´s the conservatively dressed woman at the office who is the master of networking but is clueless of how to approach men.”
“She has no plan for any ongoing relationships and is not expecting anything in particular from a man. She does not set restrictions or have no conditions given to any man standing before her. She just goes along for whatever is going to happen.”
She gives it all without leaving anything for herself.
She has no idea how to become more attractive in his eyes.
And yet at the end of the day, together with her pity-party or emotional tantrum, she wonders why men pull away.
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Men want to commit to a woman who is a keeper while they want to enjoy and play games with a throwback. But here´s the good news. As a woman, you´re in full control and you have the power to choose to be a keeper and not a throwback.